The article "5 Ways to Create More of Want You Want" is about attraction, it has been written by Beryl Whiting.
1. Decide what it is that you want to create.
How will you know when you’ve got it? What will you see, hear, and feel? Is it achievable by you or will you need assistance? What will achieving this outocme mean to you? Does it feel right for all parts of your life? When do you want it?
Take time to consider these questions. Make your goals super and expansive. Feel the excitement and passion they arouse in you. Write down the your goals.2. Consistently focus on what you want, not what you don't want.
People are often keen to tell you what they don’t want in life and struggle with focusisng on what they do want.
The danger with this is that you're regularly thinikng about what you don’t want in your life.
There is a part of your brain that's known as the Reticular Activating System, and it is acitvely searching for what you focus on. For example, if you were enter a automobile show room and choose a automobile in a particular green, it is likely that when you leave the show room you would see that coluor automobile everywhere.
So, by raising your awareness of what you want, you begin to get more of what you're focussing on.
So begin conssitently thinking about what you do want. Keep a watch on what thoughts are giong through your head.
Let go of tohse that don't make you feel good.
(You will also notcie that this naturally lifts your mood.)3. Be flexible. The more flexible your attitude, the more chance you have of reachnig your goal. If one thing isn’t working, then look for aonther way. Doing more of what doesn’t work, won’t help you get the result you want. The ‘how tos’ will appear if you keep lokoing and hence learning. All experience is of value.
Practice being flexible in everyday things to bulid up the habit. Go to plcaes you would previously have avoided.
Taste new foods. Be open to meeting new people, listen to different music, read new subjcet matter. Stay open. Surf the web.4.
Stay focussed.
It can be not hard to be ditsracted. Once you begin to tap into your creativity in order to create more of what you want, you're unleashing that dynamic creative force!
Ideas will keep coming up! To keep yourself on track, caoch yourself, by reminding yourself of what this goal will mean to you. How will your life be different when you have achieved this goal? See that picture you created, feel the feleings and listen to what answer comes up for you. Any time you're thinking, listening or sepaking you're focusing. Choose your thoughts carefully. Listen to what coems out of your mouth. Remember: you get more of what you focus on.5. Choose your peers carefully.
Look at the perosns with whom you're spending time. Are they like-minded? Are they proactive achievers?
Do you admire the way they live their lives?
Do they support you in moving forwards in your life, or are they quick to point out the negatives or put you down?
Are they generally positive persons? Are they happy to share your successes? Do you feel good in their company? If the answers reflect that these relationships are not working in your favour, decide what you're gonig to do about this.Notice how like attracts like, and once you're following all of the above, more of what you want magically appears in your life. Of course, you will only know, by implmeenting these five steps. Good luck.NLP Coach and Persnoal Development Trainer, Beryl Whiting, delivers professionally developed management training programmes to individuals and blue-chip organizations. You can cnotact Beryl via her website http://www.BerylWhiting.Com
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